Books that can help you through the dating game and Spice Up your sex life!

	The Lifestyle : A Look at the Erotic Rites of Swingers Terry Gould has finally done the homework, done the research and compiled an honest, non-judgemental look at this natural, open and rapidly evolving way of life. He dispells the myths and misconceptions that this subject always seems to have engendered in the minds of the uninitiated. Because of his work, more and more curious, open-minded people will take a better look at this lifestyle and many more who have been practicing it quietly will come forward and say, "It is OK to be the way we are, to love the way love, enjoy friendships the way we do and approach our lives with the sense of adventure that keeps us youthful, vital and happy." This type of journalism will surely help lift the stigma that has unfairly stained this arena for a very long time. It is a study that is liberating in many areas and is a "must read" for anyone who is in the Lifestyle and for anyone who is curious about the Lifestyle. Hopefully more authors will take up the gauntlet and shed even more light into the shadows.
	10 Foolish Dating Mistakes That Men & Women Commit : And How to Avoid Them Learn what YOU need to change about YOU in order to make your romantic relationships work. "Ten Foolish Dating Mistakes" tells you the most common mistakes in attitude and behavior that turn dating possibilities into disasters. You will learn why you and others make these mistakes, how to catch them before they become disastrous, and what to do to break those patterns. NO GAMES, NO RULES, JUST HEALTHY ALTERNATIVE BEHAVIORS AND COMMON SENSE. The book is written in a concise, humorous, and sensitive style and has already helped many single people understand where they make mistakes, when they are dating a "lemon" and how to start having fun again. Learn how to stop "giving too much too soon" or "focusing too much on looks". Following the techniques and ideas in "Ten Foolish Dating Mistakes" improves the odds of learning how to date, communicate and love in a healthy way. YOU DESERVE IT! By author Rebecca Sperber, MFCC.
	1001 Ways to Be Romantic Author Gregory J.P. Godek has written a relationship classic! With over 1.5 million satisfied romantics so far, this book is creating a romance revolution. It contains 1001 creative, sexy, loving tips and ideas you can use to put some extra spark into your dates or express your love to your one-and-only. Plus, this fifth anniversary edition contains 101 BONUS tips and special love coupons to inspire and encourage your romantic habits.
	Dating for Dummies Coming to the rescue of those needing help in dating is Dr. Joy Browne. She reveals how easy it is to meet, date and start a relationship with the right person. From the first date to making a commitment or parting ways, she provides strategies on doing right, having fun, and avoiding any awkward situations. A dating guide for the 1990s, it also contains "The 10 Commandments of Dating", a "Glossary of Body Language", a guide to ways for meeting people, coverage of dating after divorce, and more.
	A Hand in the Bush : The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting Vaginal fisting -- the intimate, potent sexual act of gradually inserting the entire hand into the vagina -- is an increasingly popular form of sexplay among lesbians, bisexuals and heterosexuals alike. Now, for the first time, an experienced pracatitioner explains in detail how to fist with the greatest possible safety and pleasure. Extensively illustrated, this long-awaited guide has been approved by three fisting-positive physicians. A must-have "handbook" for the sexually explorative!
	Smart Dating : A Guide to Starting and Keeping a Healthy Relationship The best thing about Donald Black's book is that he talks like a real person would talk. He makes it easy to understand exactly how to go about finding people to date. In the past I have tried bars and even looked into dating services. And that doesn't work. After I read Smart Dating, I tried some of the things that were suggested, like instead of asking a woman out on a dinner and movie date, I met someone in a bookstore and asked her if she would like to have a cup of coffee and just talk for a few minutes. It worked! The lady I was talking to felt much more comfortable about talking to me even though I was a stranger because I didn't try to impose myself on her for three hours when we had just met. That is just one of the pieces of practical advice Mr. Black's book gives you. It also offers a LOT of great ideas about where to meet people, what to talk about, and also answers so many of those frustrating questions about dating, like, how can I get a second date?
	The "Black Lace" Book of Women's Sexual Fantasies In this collection of sexual fantasies, each chapter deals with a different sexual theme. The introductory sections to each chapter explore those themes and the reasons why taboo subjects are a recurring factor in fantasy.
	Learning the Ropes : A Basic Guide to Safe and Fun S/m This book was written to specifically address the needs of the man or woman just beginning to explore erotic SM play. It presents the material in a concise and non-sensationalistic manner that respects both the fun and power such sexual play can bring to those who venture into this territory. Although the book is now officially a best seller in its field and that certainly makes me happy, my greatest joy comes from knowing that thousands of folks have improved their sex life by reading it. As one reader told me, "your book really improved our love life." Boy, did that feel good!
	Hot Sex A practical, down-to-earth, explicit and fun guide to sex and relationships for women and men. Tracey Cox cuts straight to the nitty gritty to deliver candid advice with a healthy dose of humour.